YOU GOT ISSUES, PART 8,COMMUNICATION

YOU GOT ISSUES ,PART 8,COMMUNICATION

I see in majority of us we lack the ability to

Communicate , we preach so much about it

But find it so hard to do it

I love communication for them to tell me

When I’m wrong or how there feeling about

Situations

But when it comes to me it’s very hard

Because when I tried to tell others my feelings

It’s like they didn’t hear me or made me feel dumb

So I just stop talking

In situations like these if another makes u

Feel like they not listening

They never will you go on and on

About how you feel and they just push

It to the curb

It’s because you got the wrong person

Communication is a 2 person job

You need that feedback

That reassurance

But not everyone can do that

And sometimes it takes a lot of understanding

But not everyone is you

And not everyone has healed from

What they have been through

It takes time and being patient with

One another

Don’t shut down yet if you see them

Trying don’t push them

Be gentle just like if they where a new born baby

Don’t rush and don’t be scared to voice

What’s wrong

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Here for this next selection I'm going to give

you a glimpse into my head QWN

To be understanding

To listen

To getting your heart broke

When they leave you

To be the only one that

Falls

When the other just plays

Around with you

Why should I love again

everything is temporary

I just need someone who will

Listen

Hug me when I’m in my feelings

To translate my words

When they are broken

To mend my heart

When I can’t find the pieces

And please tell me when I’m

Wrong

I’m not contradicting

If your here for me

Than baby I’m sacrificing

For you

I just want that communication

I want to feel heard when

I believe no one is listening

Can you do that for me

And I know what you have

Been through

I’m walking on egg shells to

Get to you

I don’t mind being gentle to

You

Tell me what’s wrong

I don’t care if I’m in the wrong

I’ll hold myself accountable

And fix what was broken

And Ik it won’t always be 50/50

But if you can reciprocate

With me

Than I’ll do anything for you

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Sometimes it is hard to climb over

Walls that people have build

Their afraid to let you in

And for them I know there not trying

To make it difficult

But they’ve been through to much

To where it’s there defense mechanism

And I just want to say

Those type of people preach about

Communication

But what there feeling there only saying

In there head

And not voicing out loud

It’s so hard to read them

You can’t read there mind

But you want to fix them

But you just can’t get through

It’s like there here physically

But mentally there someplace else

They’ve been let down

By everyone people have broken

Them

But you can’t fix them

They have to snap back to reality

And heal

And yes you can help them

But you can’t take there pain

Away or you’ll feel drain

You both need open

Communication

And it can be little by little

I know you both want to give up

But honey y’all both just started

And I’m not saying

To put up with anything

Because not everybody deserves your

Heart your kindness

But for that one person

You know that you’ll be 10 toes down for

They feel trapped they try to say

What they feel

But scared of your reaction

Scared you wont understand

What there saying

Because many people they have told

What there feeling to

Was only listening and not understanding

Them, making them feel dumb

As if they where in the wrong

So please be gentle with them

Let them know you’re here

Talk to them

Don’t let it just be one sided

And for majority

I’m talking about you

I’m talking about me because I know

How it feels

So if you know how it feels to not feel

Understand

Be patient with them

Cause that’s how they feel

So just listen

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